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Lemmy is a worse platform for women than Reddit was EDIT this link is an OLD POST that contains my thesis on the state of lemmy and is not the context of the much more recent comment in the screenshot. sorry for any confusion caused by this juxtaposition, my main goal with having this linked is to expose how nothing has improved

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[โ€“] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Why do you feel like a lack of sex is a punishment? Isn't a lack of sex the baseline? If I don't buy my friend a gift, that's not a punishment, that is a neutral action. Unless the implied assumption was that I owe it to them to give them gifts.

[โ€“] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

You are not understanding the argument.

Let's say two people are regularly having sex with consent. And man already agrees with her on the issues listed above.

Then OOP pops up and says she should not have sex with him to get her rights back.

Explain to me how not having sex with the man will get her rights back? He already supports them.