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[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 129 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Even with a trans person does something shitty, such as Blair White, Caitlyn Jenner or Ezra Miller, it's not a free pass to misgender them. The only effect of that is the trans people in your life know you aren't the ally you claim to be. You aren't misgendering your friends because you are polite. It's absolutely not okay, keep criticizing crappy trans folk, but when you intentionally misgender then you attack all of us.

[–] YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH@infosec.pub 18 points 1 month ago

There is a literal nazi who chose the name Augustus Invictus and I will call him that as I wish for him the absolute worst. He is on trial so hopefully he gets the worst.

[–] areyouevenreal@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I know some.of those names but have no idea what these people have done. Could you explain?

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Sure. I chose those three because they are probably the biggest names that trans people might feel comfortable misgendering.

Ezra Miller is an actor who played the superhero The Flash in the last few movies, they are also non-binary and use they/them prounouns. There is a lot of details on wikipedia but the TL:DR Ezra started a relationship with an underage fan (Ezra was 23, she was 12) and this led to kidnapping claims by her parents and a restraining order. They are a real piece of shit IMO.

BLaire White is a right wing youtuber who regularly posts things like this. She also has said repeatedly that "trans women aren't real women, just trans women", suffice to say she is generally disliked by the broader trans community.

Caitlyn Jenner does and says similar things, but with a much bigger microphone. She has been a vocal supporter of Trump and generally the openly transphobic MAGA movement. She ran for governor of California and during her failed campaign, said she would ban trans kids from competing in sports. Currently, she is a Fox News correspondent and regularly appears just saying the most awful things. Much like Blaire, Caitlyin is not well liked by the trans community.

[–] OrnateLuna@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Huh so that's how I learn that there was a flash movie

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Strictly speaking about the content of the movie and not my opinion of the lead actor.

The Flash movie is.... odd. A big time travel alter dimensional mess. Fun enough if you sorta turn your brain off, wonderful visual effects just don't think too hard on any particular plot point.

[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I can't say if they identify with that term, just that Ezra is nonbinary. However "trans" is an umbrella term encompassing lots of different identities, such as transgender, transexual, intersex, non-binary etc.

So Ezra was included because I thought they would be the most widely known shitty person that has a gender identify still worthy of respect.

[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 1 points 1 month ago

I see. Didn’t know that either. I just don’t keep up with the joneses I guess.