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What's a trait you look for in potential partners that seems uniquely in your trait wishlist? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 month ago by CraigOhMyEggo@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] bizarroland@fedia.io 1 points 1 month ago

I'll take it into consideration but like I've said I've dated a few people and some of those people have had hobbies and their shit together for the most part but the ones that did not have a full-time job to support their hobbies on top of that have always been concerningly quick to start relying on me to financially support their hobbies, which is its own issue.

I think if I were to bend that rule again that person's hobbies would have to be closely interlinked with my hobbies so that the financial requirements would not increase.