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What's an example of a kink that should not be shamed?
all of them except humiliation kinks.
Well then we have completely polar opposite views. There is no kink that should go unshamed imo.
If it is not something a person should be proud of then it is something they should be ashamed of.
I'm fully willing to hear a decent argument that can provide reasoning to the contrary, because I am unable to think of one myself.
You are a very closeminded person then.
Quite the contrary. However, I recognize unhealthy behaviour.
From my perspective, you are the one with a closed mind.
..fucking what??
I think I have abundantly clear. Now we have reached the point in the conversation where we agree to disagree.
Take care of yourself.