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[–] Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works 51 points 1 year ago (4 children)

As a bisexual guy, this is exactly why I mostly dated women.

[–] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 28 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Hey! Bi cis male here, the few men I seem to go on dates with always seem to have some hangup. I'm not gay enough, I'm married to a women, hates vegans, hates trans people. It's really exhausting to the point that first dates feel like I'm interviewing them.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 1 year ago

As a straight man I could say similar things about most of the women I've dated. It's not a men problem or a women problem, it's just how dating is. Nobody's perfect and it's hard to find someone that fits with you.

you mean to tell me that most people don't believe the majority of the things you do? That's weird.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Men are hot, but I'm more pessimistic about finding a guy I'd want a relationship with than finding a girl. As a transfem, I'd have an easier time finding a guy, but a majority would probably be abusive or chasers. There might be fewer women, but it'd be safer(women are more likely to be progressive) and they'd be more into me as a person. It'd be harder to hookup, but easier to find a gf than bf.

Even transmascs would be better than cis dudes because they're almost certainly not bigoted chasers that were raised to see women as goals instead of people.

[–] Voroxpete@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 year ago

My wife would agree I suspect. She's transfem, and basically considered herself a lesbian until she met me.

[–] nimpnin@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 year ago

As a bisexual guy, this is not at all my experience with non-straight men. They seem to be mostly cool and well socialized.

[–] TayamExplorer@discuss.online -4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Wow! Sample size: 1. Sure showed them, buddy.

Clearly not bi, btw, you're a misandrist. Congratulations 🎉!

[–] A_Very_Big_Fan@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

I've never seen someone so pissed off and offended over not getting any bussy lmao