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I feel so stupid lol. I'm on a bunch of random forums still that I've been visiting since the early 2000's and trying to figure out why things go so bad socially (grouping/instance hating/etc) on platforms like this so quick. There's no voting on any of them, it's such a baked-in thing here and on reddit and so foreign on forums that I just didn't consider it for some reason. There's definitely dissent or butting heads but it usually just fizzles out and doesn't carry onto other posts (unless two users really hate each other, always happens unfortunately).