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Is any body able to provide some advice to help my friend through a bad patch? (discuss.tchncs.de)

submitted 6 months ago by dependencyinjection@discuss.tchncs.de to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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So I’m a bit of a degenerate but making better choices lately and sort of getting things on track.

My friend had some health issues and had to stop working, my other friend now does all the labour, and he just runs the business.

He then split with his partner who he has children, as frankly he would never be at home and it was always going to happen.

I just found out the health condition has gotten worse and he will have to lose a leg. He never improved his diet, kept hitting the coke hard and gambling. So recently he has gambled away £35,000 and had a breakdown with another friend.

How do I even be there for him and keep him on a good path, providing he is open to change.

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[–] flambonkscious@sh.itjust.works 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Holy shit, that's an amazing response

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Honestly the funny part is that the addiction med isn't even really my specific subspecialty, it's just that it is personality disorders and there's a LOT of overlap in the behaviors they present with as well as just general comorbidity.