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Therapy (with an MFT or PhD therapist) and a gym membership can do amazing things for you at 21.
No single person will have all the answers. You may find a Yoda to help with your career, but they probably won't have the life answers you're interested in. That's what your 20s are about: figuring yourself out and putting yourself together.
My 20s were about figuring myself out. My 30s were about figuring the system (economy, etc) out. Now I'm in my 40s, I understand the system, and don't like it.
Ah, I like the way you summarise this by the decades. It makes sense