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[โ€“] chahk@beehaw.org 11 points 9 months ago (2 children)

The company doesn't care about you.

I wish more people would understand this.

Also, HR is there to protect the company, not you.

[โ€“] Lettuceeatlettuce@lemmy.ml 4 points 9 months ago

Absolutely accurate.

[โ€“] Kissaki@feddit.de 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I'm always a bit irritated by that definite statement that companies don't care.

The company I work for is small, ~30 people, and my boss/employer as a person cares about me. A lot as a worker/employee, maybe less so but also as a person/individual.

Yes, the company as a theoretical construct does not care for or about me. It's a construct. But that ignores the people in it, and the variance between companies (even if it's only a minority where leadership personally cares).

[โ€“] chahk@beehaw.org 2 points 9 months ago

Without even a little bit of sarcasm, I am genuinely happy for you. Hold on to this job for as long as you can, because people like that are incredibly rare.

In my 30+ year career in IT I've only managed to work for a place like that once. It was 20 years ago, and I was the sixth employee to be hired, and at our peak we were at about 30 people. The owner was a super nice guy who cared about every single one of his employees. I learned a lot from him and consider him to be a friend and a mentor. We weathered the 2008 financial downturn better than most, but eventually business started to dry up and the company was sold to a large competitor. The boss was relegated to a consultancy role, and eventually got pushed out altogether. I lasted another 3 years at that place, but it was never the same after the buyout. Everyone became just another cog in the machine. Every place I worked at before that or since was your typical corporate position where my manager's supervisor's boss doesn't even know I exist, much less care about me.

I consider the first 6 years in that company a highlight of my career, and keep in touch with that boss and others who worked there. So yes, treasure your time at a good workplace, and don't take for granted the personal connections you make there.