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Couples, what secret language do you use to tell each other details that the company you're in doesn't understand or notice? (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 year ago by original_reader@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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What words, phrases or signs do you use and how do you get your partner's attention?

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[–] sara@lemmy.today 56 points 1 year ago (2 children)

“Do we have any pineapple at home?” is our safe word for social situations when one of us needs a reason to leave a situation or change the conversation because they’re uncomfortable. I detest pineapple.

[–] emptiestplace@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 year ago

You must really dislike it - I'd have trouble not laughing if someone asked me this.

[–] aksdb@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What if they go "sure, I'll get you some"?

[–] sara@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

“Oh no, I want to bake a pineapple upside down cake later, I’m not hungry now.”