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Tell us your definitive "I really should not do this" moment. (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by qyron@sopuli.xyz to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Ever had one those moments in life when you know, beyond any shadow of a doubt, you are making a very, very bad decision, with a great chance for instant regret and a miserable, probably long lasting, outcome and notheless followed that path?

Yeah, that one. Care to share with us?

I'll start. I dated a person, after we had already dated for a very short time, during which I was cheated on and eventually was left for a fourth person.

Yeah, not my brightest moment. And yes, I was cheated on again and again was left for another person.

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[–] syl@programming.dev 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

So you made it and it was the right decision!

[–] MJBrune@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, although some days I wonder where I'd be if I had chased the money.

[–] syl@programming.dev 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

You'd probably be chasing more of it.

[–] MJBrune@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

I'm still somewhat chasing it. Just also balancing that with the things I want to work on. Like if I like a game, sometimes I take less money to work on it. Which is probably a bad thing since I have a family to support with my work.