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I have noticed that I interact a lot more in Lemmy than I ever did in any social media. Let it be Reddit, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter... I am used to be the lurker, but here for some reason things are different. Wonder if more people feel like I do.

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[–] Poggervania@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I would actually say I interact less, but the things I say on here tend to be more meaningful outside of the dumb jokes and references. Like I have more of a tendency to have an actual discussion on here and write out my thoughts versus on Reddit where I would say low-effort shit or something purely for the dopamine rush of getting those sick upvotes.

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

I would definitely interact more if there was more to interact with.

[–] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago

nah I comment about the same as I did on reddit

[–] governorkeagan@lemdro.id 2 points 1 year ago

Definitely comment more than I did on Reddit. I feel like if I comment on Reddit post that has been up for a couple hours, my comment will never get seen -- haven't seen that here

[–] BigGovernment@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Significantly more here. I never really liked Reddit, but a couple of my hobbies had communities there so I felt like I had to use it. I stayed away from anything that wasn't a niche personal interest and avoided the bigger subreddits and front page. Here I check out the front page frequently and am pretty generous with upvotes. It feels more like an investment in a community I want to be successful, and not like there's anything intrinsic to Lemmy that encourages it.

[–] Lime66@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

When i had an account on both reddit and lemmy, i askedd questions on lemmy because I got actual answers

[–] utg@mander.xyz 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've noticed that the lack of content and poor arrangements is pushing me back to reddit

[–] GiveOver@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago

It's pushing me to the real world instead of Reddit, so a great success overall.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Way more. There's lots of genuine posts on here and not karma farming bots. Also, my posts in c/lockpicking and c/balisong actually got replies fairly quickly. On reddit, I would've been met with downvotes or people who don't even interact with my posts.

[–] JasSmith@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I use it less. I find the user-base a) very hostile to diverse opinions and experiences, b) very American-centric, and c) very leftwing and authoritarian.

I also have difficulty with discoverability. If I can’t find good communities, I can’t interact with them.

[–] Grant_M@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There are loads of good and great communities within the Fediverse and Lemmy. Maybe the spaces you're seeking have been defederated?

[–] JasSmith@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Are there any good discoverability tools?

[–] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 0 points 1 year ago

Far less than Reddit.

[–] Grant_M@lemmy.ca -1 points 1 year ago

Lemmy is pro-humanity Reddit is pro-fascist

[–] lath@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I try not to. This place bans you for "not being nice", which is an arbitrary metric that changes from mod to mod and let's all be honest, being nice is exhausting. Ask anyone working in retail.

The comments here are correct though. As long as you focus on your niche and it's relatively active, then stay away from propaganda media, Lemmy can be an useful place. The default All is worthless in anything but lurking and you need to find the communities about your interests or make them yourself if they don't exist here yet.

Edit: That was close! I almost commented on some dumb take in a doubly dangerous post that involved both current wars. That's a definite no-no. Just don't get involved, it's not worth the trouble.

[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 2 points 1 year ago

Reddit bans for not being nice, Facebook, hell even 4chan does. What are you looking for, a place where people can be assholes and "correct"? You don't want that at all

[–] spookedbyroaches@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

I'm pretty abrasive but nothing happened to me IDK what you're talking about

[–] Spzi@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

This place bans you for “not being nice”, which is an arbitrary metric that changes from mod to mod and let’s all be honest, being nice is exhausting.

Lemmy is many places (individual instances with individual moderation policies). If it's important to you, you can find a server which matches your expectations, or host your own.

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