I just launched a business to help non technical people identify and selfhost their business tools. I faced such problems when I lived in a fascist country and now that I live in a fascist country again, I figured its a good way to go.
Privacy
A place to discuss privacy and freedom in the digital world.
Privacy has become a very important issue in modern society, with companies and governments constantly abusing their power, more and more people are waking up to the importance of digital privacy.
In this community everyone is welcome to post links and discuss topics related to privacy.
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- Posting a link to a website containing tracking isn't great, if contents of the website are behind a paywall maybe copy them into the post
- Don't promote proprietary software
- Try to keep things on topic
- If you have a question, please try searching for previous discussions, maybe it has already been answered
- Reposts are fine, but should have at least a couple of weeks in between so that the post can reach a new audience
- Be nice :)
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That's super cool. I've always thought that every household should have a server as we live very digitally dependent lives now. Back when Microsoft released their homeserver edition, I thought that was going to be a good angle, however, it didn't take off. If I were a younger man, I've often thought about assembling small, closet servers that could sit on a shelf and be used by the household members. I also see a lot of 'mini' server layouts using Lenovo ThinkCenters, which are surprisingly pretty snappy servers.
Self hosting is not always about hosting at home. A private VPS/VDS, co-located server that you own/lease and operate is essentially that. I take self hosting as not turning to big tech for the very same solutions I can spin up myself on a private server.
That being said, self hosting also involves servers at home that run personal services.
My line of work is mostly in business. Getting people to operate their businesses with open source tools on private servers, local, in the country and abroad, as they wish.
Self hosting is not always about hosting at home. A private VPS/VDS, co-located server that you own/lease and operate is essentially that.
Absolutely. I'm not one to split hairs in the definitions. Old computer at home, paid for VPS, hell even an old laptop.
That's great to hear you've made it into a business. I'd been thinking of creating a "biz in a box" side hustle for small businesses. I'm not very business-savvy, though.
I do! I have a small kubernetes at home where I try to host everything I can.
Well, then you are more advanced than I. I haven't got kubernetes figured out yet. I'm still plumbing the depths of Docker. I did provision a small server to test out kubernetes but haven't got back to it.
To be honest kubernetes is probably overkill for most homelabs, but I learned a lot using it and it got me my current job so I think it's worth it 😅!
To be honest kubernetes is probably overkill for most homelabs,
So I've heard, but I'm still keen to learn it. You parlayed the experience into a positive cash flow, so that's pretty awesome.
I’ve been self hosting for a few years now. One of my greatest enemies had been trying to get too fancy too soon. Depending on your personality type, I suggest just getting some crap working to the end goal first. Just a one service compose file or even just some docker cli command that you find in your bash history. Then go back and refine later.
NAS, Jellyfin/Plex, Copyparty (Google Drive replacement), Kiwix (Wikipedia), Joplin, Searxng, Ollama (LLM). Plus all the various searching tools, the maintenance tools, etc. I have pretty strong compartmentalization of my storage into separate media pools that all have their own RAID setups, plus an external backup.
It's a bit of work to get all set up, but I use docker compose and autoheal / watchtower to keep the services going. I use Caddy and my own domain to make the services I want available externally to my network.
watchtower
Do you find that Watchtower sometimes screws up the update? I know I was plagued with that issue enough to drive me out to search the webs. OG Watchtower hasn't been updated in 2 years and shows no real sign of activity. I went searching for a fork:
https://watchtower.devcdn.net/
Haven't had any issues since.
Thanks for that! I have struggled with watchtower from time to time, so knowing there is a good fork out there is great. I'll try it out.
I try to selfhost wherever possible. There are a few exceptions where it's not practical (email for example), so I prefer not Google/Apple/Microsoft when that happens. In those cases, I also like to diversify so any potential enshitification is less painful to resolve.
DNS, Jellyfin and game servers mostly; occasionally will tinker with other stuff but those are the ones that have lasted
Self hosting looks interesting, but I'd generally rather keep things offline. Even as a software developer, I value simplicity, and most online "services" I find entirely superfluous ; self hosted or no.
Jellyfin ? How about a big external drive with movies on it, just plug it into your viewing device of choice.
Hosting my notes ? I take my notes on physical paper. (Loose sheets, because notebooks have the same scaling issues computer notes have. Sometimes I just want to splay everything out on the table and do big picture work. That's also why I only use one side of the sheet.)
Music streaming ? I dont even know if you can self host this one (probably yes) but I'd rather just copy the file over ; even a huge library doesn't take that much space.
Photos ? I just have folders on an encrypted drive, with some backups elsewhere. Though I guess Immich looks interesting...
Documents ? Okay, I should self-host this one. For now it's all local, on-disk (encrypted of course, there's no good reason not to), but it can be quite inconvenient if my only copy is at home on my desktop.
So no, I don't self-host yet, and when I do (hopefully soon) it will be only in a limited capacity ; mostly out of a convenience concern, privacy being a distant second.
Totally understandable
Self-hosting for a bit less than 10 years. My main pain is that my setup is now stable and I have nothing left to tinker with.
and I have nothing left to tinker with
Blasphemy! LOL Congrats on the stable stack.
Have a NAS, Jellyfin server, and LLM on my LAN so far. Next step is to make them available outside my home, but I've been procrastinating.
Next step is to make them available outside my home, but I’ve been procrastinating.
I know a lot of people have 'concerns' about Cloudflare, but the Cloudflare Tunnel/ZeroTrust free tier works like a charm. You don't have to punch holes in your server to route services/ports, no exceptions in UFW or similar. No port forwarding or NAT concerns on your router/firewall. The only caveat is that you need a proper domain name which you can pick up at NamesCheap for less than $5 USD. Overlay Tailscale on your server, and Jack's a doughnut, Bob's your uncle.
There are alternatives to Cloudflare like Pinggy, ngrok, LcalXpose, Zrok, Localtunnel, localhost.run, serveo, Inlets, and Frp. ngrok seems to be the more popular of the options.
I've relied on a Wireguard VPN for remote access until recently, I'm now playing with Pangolin via a VPS. I question why I need public (private) access, but it seems cool to operate that way and allows family members easier access.
I don't know if I'd call myself a privacy pioneer but I self-host some stuff and share/trade services with a few friends.
I have a couple Minecraft servers using pterodactyl :3
I probably will self host a lot more when I have my own place and money tho
I used to be heavy into Minecraft. I had a really nice set up on a VPS. Ran shaders and a ton of add ons. Fun stuff.
I self-host a decent bit of stuff. My setup has been to rent rack space in a datacenter to put my own storage server in, plus a second server at my house that I mirror backups between. I run my own VPN, "Cloud" storage, lemmy instance, game servers, websites, CI build systems, media streaming, etc... You can find some cheap server hardware on eBay that's only a generation or two old, which you'll need if you're running in a datacenter, but for home servers it's super easy to just set up an old desktop with a battery backup.
I self-host my own Monero node and I self-host my password manager and my files
Monero node
Hmm. I'm pretty confident in my defences but selfhosting passwords and financials keeps me awake at night. LOL
I've been selfhosting for about 4 years now. I wanted to break away from services like Google and find tools I could control on my own hardware.
I went from bare-metal Jellyfin and Nextcloud on my NAS to running the NAS with an NFS share and a Raspberry Pi as a pod orchestrator through quadlets. That little sucker is running pods for:
- media (audiobookshelf, kavita, Jellyfin)
- Immich
- Invidious
- Navidrome
- Peertube
- SearXNG
- Servarr suite (flareresolverr/jackett/prowlarr, gluetun/qbittorrent, jellyseerr, lazylibrarian, lidarr, mylar3, radarr, sonarr)
It's also running instances of:
- mumble
- nginx-proxy-manager
- sftpgo
- syncthing
I've only opened a few services for family usage, but everything else is VPN-accessible.
Also, no more Nextcloud. Syncthing balances everything out, and I can use sftpgo's webdav option to host my own seedvault backups. Now Google is collecting dust.
I recently got the homelab going and plan on expanding to a few family members as well.
12 nodes (some new Epycs for encrypted memory, some centreon ewaste for cold storage and background tasks, and a few in-between) so far. All Harvester HCI and Rancher. I run game servers, Ollama, and NFS for storing my encrypted back ups on it mostly at the moment, with a sync to send encrypted to Proton for that off-site.
I can only get so erect
I was running a server hosting a Gutenberg mirror at home 30+ years ago. And no, it's not public.
services
- gitea (forge)
- pmwikis (PIM) e.g. fabien.benetou.fr including... notes on self-hosting
- affine
- wg-easy (WireGuard, VPN)
- copyparty (prototype collaborative filesharing)
- ntfy (notifications)
- peertube (videos) e.g. video.benetou.fr
- Jitsi Meet (video meetings)
- immers (federated Metaverse, really)
- WebDAV (files)
- networked-aframe (live collaboration in XR)
- open-easyrtc
- telegram-pim-bot
- transmission (seeding linux ISOs)
- fireflyiii
meta
- nginx (reverse proxy)
- grafana
- cadvisor
- pushgateway
- prometheus
- caddy
- nodeexporter
- alertmanager
also locally (and beyond thanks to WireGuard)
- HomeAssistant
- Immich
- miniDLNA
I'm currently running 2 Proxmox hosts with 3 LXC containers and 3 VMs between them, and on my NAS - 2 VMs and... 50 docker containers.
I reeeeeally don't like centralized services. 😂
Still shopping around for a cheap enough Optiplex or ThinkCentre that has bare minimum encoding (HEVC 10-bit) and RAM (16 GB), but once I find my baby I'll be running Nextcloud, Immich, and Jellyfin in Proxmox. I want to leave Google behind very badly, especially for my files and photos I got in the cloud, but also for music streaming since I'm a daily YT Music user.
ThinkCentre
I've seen some really nice rack set ups for ThinkCenter. Small, unobtrusive, and quite capable.

Oh god, where do I start?
3 node proxmox setup:
Net node:
- opnsense (dns, dhcp, edge firewall, wireguard)
- caddy
- ssh hub
Compute node:
- a few game servers
- wiki (kiwix), full copy of wikipedia
- searxng
- docker host (portainer plus 10ish containers)
- forgejo
- testing vms
- a separate zfs mirror
Storage node:
- all drives, zfs + mirror
- proxmox backup server
- home assistant
- immich
- ARR stack
- jellyfin
Oh and a monitoring node made out of a rpi 4b with an nvme hat,running dietpi, prometheus, grafana and homepage (gethomepage.dev)
Thats about it plus automations and stuff, wireguard so I can access it from anywhere. Not separated properly, no network zones, just a few vlans for now, work in progress.
Yep! I just started self hosting a lossless music and 1080p movie server for my dad and I! It goes online soon. I'd say self hosting is an integral part of gaining true digital sovereignty.
self hosting is an integral part of gaining true digital sovereignty
Absolutely! 100%