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calling them by a nickname because you don't remember their character name but don't want to break immersion

[–] DaddleDew@lemmy.world 58 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Calling them by their class because you don't remember either

[–] sorghum@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 week ago

I always revert to calling them by their race/ancestry or using racial traits like long ears for elves. It makes playing old characters more authentic, lol.

[–] poVoq@slrpnk.net 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I mean, thats how most online gaming works 🤷

[–] Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I just bluescreen though.

I play BG3 with a couple people that I met here on Lemmy and I know their real names. I call them by their real names. We all do. But the second BG3 starts I just blank out. Last week we were playing Peak and I could not remember one of their names for the fucking life of me and kept calling them some different nickname based off of their username.

let's hope they don't follow your profile :p

[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 week ago

I was in a party where one of the members was a trans woman (abt 2 years in) and her DND name became her actual name, she was testing it out with us 🥰

[–] Atlas48@ttrpg.network 10 points 1 week ago

I personally refer to the characters as seperate entities, directly.

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@thelemmy.club 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Ohh, I've been playing d&d with my coworkers this whole time (also assigning them fairly shitty characters).

[–] hedgehogging_the_bed@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Air. I ask you to ponder this.

[–] Gladaed@feddit.org 4 points 1 week ago

Stage IV: Calling them by their character's name cause egg.

[–] ShaggySnacks@lemmy.myserv.one 3 points 1 week ago

I forgot their character names, so I just give them nicknames. The power of playing a dumb character.

[–] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

There was a player in my group who's character name and real name were fairly similar, so I ended up calling him his character's name a lot. Now he has a new character and I keep calling him by the old character's name by mistake

[–] Iunnrais@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I dm’d a steady group at my FLGS for a couple years with people I didn’t already know. It took an embarrassingly long time to learn some of their real names. Definitely that last one for me.