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[–] greenbelt@lemy.lol 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

The drive for freedom of the living can not be stopped. Only temporary measures are possible against it.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 76 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 20 points 3 days ago (2 children)

It had only been 14 minutes when you took that screenshot

[–] sbf@feddit.org 29 points 3 days ago

Still funny

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 9 points 2 days ago

In terms of personal outlook, nothing.

[–] lietuva@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

We are living in the most developed and peaceful tunes/times. Our great grandparents did not have antibiotics, child mortality was very high. Around 150 years ago, slavery and serfdom was hapenning, so instead of staring itno Outlook or Teams, you would be doing life crushing and dehumanising work. Much off the stuff that was out of reeach by lower or middle class is much more affordable today, even basic stuff such as meat was scarce in my grand parents time (ussr). 100 years ago most people saw only around 30 km around their land, or as much as horse could walk in a day, but now traveling is very affordable. I am hopeful that besides all the political crap we are moving towards even more developed future

[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 47 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Not to lie, basically nothing. I'm struggling really bad.

[–] iii@mander.xyz 24 points 3 days ago
[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 2 days ago

Im sure it does not help but I feel the same and am too.

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[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago (8 children)

I don't mean to sound ridiculous or facetious here, but honestly, absolutely nothing. Absolutely nothing. I have nothing to be hopeful about anymore. My best friend had been screwing me over for months. My family hates me because I'm gay. I hate myself for a thousand different reasons. Like, I don't really have anything to be hopeful about anymore. I'm just waiting to die.

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

For what it's worth, from one internet stranger to another, I'm sorry.

No one should feel so betrayed on all fronts. That's awful :(

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[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Art. I found some cheap acrylic glitter paint I bought a while back and I’ve been making sparkly erotic paintings. Some mixed media with mutilated copies of mass market christian books, random wooden trays. I have a bunch of leftover scraps of t-shirt from making yarn and other fabric remnants, so I make quilts.

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[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

Yesterday i would have said my strenght but...all now just started crumbling. Every aspect of my life exept my work

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 42 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The awesome people in the world. The loud, mean ones are easier to spot and spew their crap confidently, but the less obnoxious, actually nice people are everywhere.

Don’t let the media and Internet fool you.

PS: And if you can help a decent human in need, please do.

[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 13 points 3 days ago

Getting involved in activities has really helped me see there are a ton of folks out there still doing amazing and positive things.

I've started playing music with other people again and we've played 2 small public shows and some events where we just play for each other and everyone has been very supportive and we have a great time.

I also volunteered at the wild animal rescue this year, and it's hard to choose if the people or animals are more amazing. Well, the people are much friendlier than the animals, but seeing the things they can come back from really can feel like witnessing miracles sometimes.

But that's twice a week I get to hang out with people that help me grows, support me being a better and more rounded person, and we forget about outside troubles and put everything into a positive activity together. It's been a major help this year.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 2 days ago

I wish there was something.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 35 points 3 days ago

I work at a college and young adults are far more accepting of each other.

[–] wabafee@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Everyone dies eventually. Including the people I hate the most.

[–] greenbelt@lemy.lol 2 points 1 day ago

💀 is universal

[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Movies to watch, games to play, drugs to try, not much else

[–] iii@mander.xyz 30 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Weed has gotten so much better

[–] nymnympseudonym@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

And in civilized places, you can do it without fear of imprisonment

[–] iii@mander.xyz 6 points 2 days ago

Illegal in whole of EU. Personal use is not prosecuted solely in Netherlands, Germany and Portugal I think.

[–] Assassassin@lemmy.world 14 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Not true, it's legal in Missouri.

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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

Evil destroys itself. Even if all good is destroyed it can be relearned and rebuilt as it exists in our hearts

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] spykee@lemmings.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You're my Messiah, for I have found a path.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Now go my child, secure yourself a goth latina baddie.

[–] gilgameth@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago (2 children)
[–] als@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 days ago

Why do you think I'm asking? 😅

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[–] tronx4002@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Everything is cyclical. Its cycles all the way down..

[–] Kennystillalive@feddit.org 16 points 3 days ago

For me it's the fact that I have people I care for and know they care for me. As well as the fact that when you turn of the internet people are not as hatefull as the internet seems them out to be.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

We're going through a shaky patch in the UK right now, with fascist wannabes like Tommy Robinson and Nigel Farage rising in popularity. It's sad because I thought we were better than that but then Brexit happened and I wouldn't be surprised if our next government was a Reform majority. And if they get in they'll do everything they can to secure power forever.

What keeps me hopeful, in the face of this shitstorm, is the sense of community in my neighbourhood. People on my street look out for each other and support each other.

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[–] MisterCurtis@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago

Any time I engage with my community.

It's easy to stay home, doom scroll and think there is nothing we can do. I know I'm lucky to live where I live, where the doom is just distant thunder. But joining community events makes me realize we're not going to go down without a fight.

[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 14 points 3 days ago

Seeing resistance in every form. Every spontaneous protest that protects someone from being abducted. Every boss that plants their feet in the door of a business and tells ICE to go fuck themselves. Every notice taped to a business door telling ICE they aren’t welcome. Every fundraiser supporting people afraid to go to work. Every bit of graffiti and sticker on every surface.

[–] FartsWithAnAccent@fedia.io 10 points 3 days ago

Hikes and bike rides help me stay positive.

[–] arudesalad@piefed.ca 9 points 3 days ago

I always try to have something to look forward to, I don't know how your life is so I don't know if it is possible for you but it can be as mundane as meeting up with friends or family.

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Scientists working on very specific issues that might not seem impactful atm but taken with all other papers of similar rapport, they represent a somewhat unified front working against the destruction of everything we know and love.

[–] Marshezezz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Weed, lexapro, and playing guitar. And that quote from Samwise

[–] cyberwitch@reddthat.com 2 points 2 days ago

Another Tolkien quote for ya, a battle cry: "Aurë Entuluva!" (Day shall come again!)

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] nymnympseudonym@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The Grim Reaper sharpening his scythe for geriatrics Trump and Putin

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[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Beer

my fav brewery had their 8th birthday yesterday!

Cheers! 🍻 WM

WM8

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