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[โ€“] Captain@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

A sub called me to the front of the class while we were lining up for lunch to shame me for my atrocious handwriting in 4th grade.

She had a big drawn out discussion with me about how "shameful" it was that I still wrote like that at my age.

Yes, she used the word shameful.

I still think about it when I try to write at 28 and it looks awful. I can't do anything about it despite trying my whole life.

Edit: this happened while the entire class was standing in front of the door single file waiting to leave for lunch, so there were no distractions. Everyone saw and heard everything.

[โ€“] Mrderisant@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Encouraged my bullies to keep it up, stood me up in class to talk about everything I did wrong on my book report, shook me like a ragdoll for not turning in my religion homework and hurt my neck. 5th-8th grades sucked big time

[โ€“] Knusper@feddit.de -3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It was more what they didn't do. Back in high school, I got bullied. And one time, during a longer break, another student and me, we figured, we'd borrow a soccer ball from another student, without asking.

Well, when that student returned, of course, he'd take issue with it, not because there was an issue, but because I was involved. And the other student who played ball with me, the spineless traitor, started lying that it was entirely my idea to grab the ball.

The teacher did a whole intervention thingy, sitting the whole class down to talk about this, without realizing that:

  • It's a fucking non-issue. Even if I had destroyed that ball, just buy a fucking 'nother.
  • Of course, I did not fucking come to the idea to take a ball without someone else who also wanted to play.

I didn't get punished or anything. But that teacher, being an adult and all, should have realized that it's absolute horseshit and should have had my back.

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