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I get it. There's some real jerks around here. Whether they're constantly argumentative, downright rude, always acting in bad faith, just plain trolls, overly opinionated on every subject, have the social skills of a Nausicaan, or whatever - the Fediverse is growing, and it's bound to attract toxicity in one way or another.

This post is mostly a PSA for anyone who's feeling like leaving because they're tired of dealing with things like that. I've been there several times myself, I know exactly how you feel, and I'm tired of seeing good people harassed off the platform.

Just remember that blocking is a very powerful way to stay in control of your experience. Be it a set of users, me specifically, a list of keywords, a whole community, or an entire instance: if it's causing you nothing but stress, hit that block button and see if that improves your experience here. Unlike the alien site, there is no limit to the number of entities you can block; you're in control.

Another thing to keep in mind is different instances have different vibes, and the experience can totally differ depending on the instance's moderation and federation policy.

In conclusion, your experience here can be what you make of it; don't be afraid to just block the parts that stress you out. You're not "creating an echo chamber" as everyone likes to say (often in bad faith) -- you're just taking care of yourself.

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[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 2 points 6 days ago

What I read to do is to call them out, report them, then block them. They need to know they’re being mean.

[–] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Block users and instances (although blocking instances just blocks the topic posts from that instance, not all the users from that instance).

[–] reseller_pledge609@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Wish instance blocking actually blocked properly. But the main devs know everyone would block the tanky triad immediately and they'd have no one to troll.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 1 points 5 days ago

have the social skills of a Nausicaan

Play Domjot?

[–] conicalscientist@lemmy.world -2 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Block is useless on lemmy. They can still cause a nuisance. Just becuase you can't see it doesn't mean it's not there..

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[–] TabbsTheBat@pawb.social 0 points 6 days ago

I use the block button like hideki kamiya uwu

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