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[–] girl@lemm.ee 60 points 1 year ago (10 children)

I’ve only deleted comments when I actually regret posting them, like if I was an absolute dick to someone who didn’t actually deserve it

[–] ikiru@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah. I remember I got heavily downvoted on reddit once when I made an Office reference, which seemed weird to me since reddit usually loves the Office, but then I only slowly realized in context the reference inadvertently seemed really racist which was very much not my intention so I deleted it.

I rarely delete otherwise though.

[–] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I accidentally defended a paedophile once, didn't know who the person was, just wanted to make a shitty joke.... deleted that real quick.

[–] Liforra@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did u defend them about pedophilia or something elae?

[–] ElBarto@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Nah someone made a reference to someone in their 40s being too old for the person i "defended", I made a joke about not kink shaming, then someone explained it to me.

I misread it as they liked older people.

Gotta be careful making shitty jokes when you've been drinking all night.

[–] psud@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Isn't it better to apologise?

[–] girl@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago

I do both! I delete too cause I just don’t like keeping that negativity out there.

[–] imgonnatrythis@lemm.ee 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sir, this is the internet.

[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

And it can be as positive of a place as we can make it

You should try it

[–] Custoslibera@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Leave it up to remind yourself you can be better.

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Fuck you piece of shit fuck you

[–] girl@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago
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[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 38 points 1 year ago (1 children)

One of the most downvoted posts I remember ever seeing was someone saying “But wasn’t he a psedophile and necrophile?” when Jimmy Saville died. That one turned around very quickly when all the stories came out in the media. Proof that sometimes you should stick to what you know is right.

[–] Custoslibera@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

Vindication is an underrated emotion.

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.one 33 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Sheeple@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Me deleting the reposting it knowing that the people who downvoted me won't return

[–] balderdash9@lemmy.zip 28 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Your boos mean nothing to me; I've seen what you cheer!

[–] AllonzeeLV@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Every breath I take without your permission raises my self-esteem!

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[–] spauldo@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I think North Korea is an unpleasant place to be, Taiwan isn't part of the PRC, and Stalin was a murderous dick. Makes me unpopular on Lemmy, but I gotta be me.

[–] MBM@lemmings.world 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That's the popular opinion everywhere here except lemmygrad and hexbear

[–] Sheeple@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And Lemmygrad/Hexbear are known for brigading other places to try and (without success) control the narrative. They openly admitted to doing so

[–] chocobo13z@pawb.social 3 points 1 year ago

By their powers combined, they become wannabe MiniTru!

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[–] UsernameIsTooLon@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yea sometimes I get downvotes but I know I'm right.

Sometimes I have upvotes on a cringe comment and delete those lol.

[–] Elderos@lemmings.world 2 points 1 year ago

Posting about the stuff I am knowledgeable about sometimes gets me the most downvotes.

[–] JokeDeity@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

On Reddit I feel like people would just look for heavily downvoted comments to tag in and add their two cents, which could easily mean your inbox exploding, so I could understand deleting just to stop the flood, but generally I don't worry too much about deleting old comments just because people didn't agree with me.

[–] mrbubblesort@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

On reddit the only thing that matters is the first few votes. The content of your comment doesn't matter, people will pile on the upvotes or downvotes because agreeing with the group gives you a dopamine rush

[–] OpenStars@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

At this point I think I would seriously start to worry about myself if everyone on Reddit agreed with me:-P.

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[–] Caesium@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I am too lazy and not petty enough to delete the comments I post. takes me too much effort to go thru with making one anyways

[–] EvilEyedPanda@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Definition of "I said what I said"

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 4 points 1 year ago

I’ve been known to delete posts that get one or two downvotes, makes me realize my comment wasn’t that helpful or interesting. If one of them gets a lot, it stays. I’m happy to be wrong or unpopular, at least the comment added to the discourse :)

[–] Designate6361@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Take pride in your downvoted posts

[–] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

The only time I delete comments is if I accidentally comment it twice.

[–] HonoraryMancunian@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Same, unless of course I commented it twice on purpose.

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[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Downvotes are a badge of honor.

[–] darcy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago

consider yourself dishonoured

[–] Ocelot@lemmies.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The best are the downvotes without comment. To me they just read “Shit, thats a great point. But, I can’t outright admit to being wrong so downvote.”

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[–] MonsiuerPatEBrown@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Your ancestors may be smiling at you, but your descendants will be smiling at me!

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