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Specifically thinking of stuff that make your life better in the long run but all kinds of answers are welcome!

I've recently learnt about lifetraps and it's made a huge positive impact on how I view myself and my relationships

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[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 39 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Keyboard shortcuts and basic computer knowledge. I'm in college and just existing with tech illiterate people is maddening.

[–] DogMuffins@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah IMO not so much shortcuts but file management is often lost on the old and the young.

What is a file. What is a file type. What is file size. Where do files go when you download them. What is your user directory. How do you rename files. What is a file sync app like google drive.

This stuff could save so many people so much time. Every day millions of professionals are emailing clients "Thanks for sending that though, but it looks like you've emailed me a shortcut instead of the actual file."

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[–] Hamartiogonic@sopuli.xyz 35 points 1 year ago

What wasn’t reasoned in, can’t be reasoned out. Many people who suffer from conspiratorial thinking need help and support more than evidence and debate.

[–] turbonewbe@lemm.ee 34 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

Unless you are wealthy, if you think life is to expensive you should ask for more taxes, not less.

The issue is not your net income, but wealth redistribution and solidarity.

[–] aesopjah@lemm.ee 18 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Except for the part where they just make more tanks instead of give people insulin or whatever

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If you can, move to a first world country.

If not: revolution.

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[–] kandoh@reddthat.com 19 points 1 year ago (5 children)

The power in your punch comes from your legs.

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[–] its_prolly_fine@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Drowning is very fast, seconds not minutes like in the movies. People in distress can take minutes before they are actively drowning. Active drowning is silent, they will not be yelling for help. It looks like the person is "climbing" or pushing down at the water. They will be vertical in the water and may be "bobbing", going underwater and resurfacing. They will have their head tilted back parallel to the surface of the water.

If you see someone go under in open water keep looking at where they went under while calling for help, don't take your eyes off it. If you are the only one who saw them go under, your job is to direct others to where they went down. In open water it's very hard to find people because the bottom isn't visible.

[–] everett@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago

Username does not check out.

[–] kromem@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago (8 children)

Evolution was largely theorized and understood down to the nuance that each parent contributed to a 'doubled seed' for trait inheritance and that trait success depended on survival of the fittest well before Jesus was even born.

(In fact, the author who wrote the only surviving book detailing this used the specific language of calling failed biological reproduction as "seed falling by the wayside of a path" around 80 years before the parable of the sower described how seed that fell by the wayside of the path didn't reproduce but that which found fertile soil produced more and more - a parable unanimously spoken in public in canon but provided a secret explanation thereafter and one believed by 'heretics' to have been referring to seeds described extremely similar to how Leucretius described his "seeds of things" in De Rerum Natura, the aforementioned book. Also, in the extra-canonical scripture this 'heretical' group followed, the parable of the sower immediately followed a couplet of sayings about how no matter if lion ate man or man ate lion that man was inevitable and how the human being was like a large fish selected from many small fish in the sea.)

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 16 points 1 year ago (7 children)
  • Exercise grows your hippocampus
  • So do antidepressants according to recent research
  • Small hippocampal volume is an excellent predictor of depression and anxiety
  • Exercise grows your hippocampus, in a dose-dependent way
  • Exercise grows your hippocampus
  • Exercise grows your hippocampus

This is the most important fact I have ever learned.

[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But is there any benefit to exercise?

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[–] blanketswithsmallpox@kbin.social 5 points 1 year ago (7 children)
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[–] Nonameuser678@aussie.zone 5 points 1 year ago

So does meditation according to my psychiatrist

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[–] wizzor@sopuli.xyz 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (6 children)

Lithium batteries are happiest between 20 and 80% state of charge. You should not store them outside of that range. Charging a little often also doesn't hurt your battery like many seem to believe.

Charging while cold is bad, but storing in cold is good.

Also, NiMh and NiCd batteries are different tha Lithium based ones. Check what type of battery you have. Phones and EVs are almost always lithium though.

[–] MooseGas@kbin.social 14 points 1 year ago (3 children)

You can only help people who want to be helped. That goes for yourself, too. You can't help yourself until you actually have the desire to improve.

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[–] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Fodmaps are sugars and sugar alcohols that many people struggle to process well. Lactose intolerance is commonly known but there are lots of others. Wheat fructans are in most gluten containing foods and may be why some people find gluten free diets beneficial even if not coeliac.

[–] state_electrician@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] redballooon@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

Ah yes, I have seen some of these words before.

[–] sadcoconut@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

Yeah and you can systematically work through the various FODMAPs to figure out which ones cause you problems. It's not that FODMAPs are all bad, it's that there are groups of foods that you might be sensitive to.

[–] Zacryon@feddit.de 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Take the following with a big spoon of salt, since I am not a lawyer. Those are the results of interest and some reading on that topic.

Insulting someone is illegal in Germany (Β§ 185 StGB). You can get financial penalties and in worst cases some jailtime. However, if you insult someone back immediately, those can cancel each other out and the judge can exempt both of you or one of you from punishment (Β§ 199 StGB). Furthermore, since it is considered a crime, you could, theoretically, detain the culprit in case they want to flee until you are able to get some identification on them, i.e., see their ID card, or until someone like the police arrives (Β§ 127 StPO). Also this is not okay if you already know the person or have easy means to determine their ID (e.g., your neighbour or someone working at a facility you visit). In all cases the proportionality of your actions are important. (Beating someone senseless just to detain them, because they called you an avocado in a mean way is certainly not okay. This might be slightly different however, if the person in question commited a violent crime and is still acting violently.)

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[–] unwellsnail@sopuli.xyz 11 points 1 year ago (15 children)

That "coronavirus 2 (SARS-CoV-2), the virus that causes COVID-19, can have lasting effects on nearly every organ and organ system of the body weeks, months, and potentially years after infection (11,12). Documented serious post-COVID-19 conditions include cardiovascular, pulmonary, neurological, renal, endocrine, hematological, and gastrointestinal complications (8), as well as death.".

This is true regardless of symptom severity or health status, every person is at risk. I think most people really aren't aware of this, they absorbed the narrative that it's gone, mild, only kills/harms the vulnerable, etc. This isn't really their fault, there are a lot of factors that have led people to that belief, but people should know their lives and livelihoods are much more at risk now than 4 years ago.

And that this isn't inevitable, there are simple methods of disrupting transmission and protecting yourself and others. COVID-19 is here to stay (unless we do something about that) and it has impacts on every person infected and on society at large. That shouldn't mean folks accept illness and worse quality of life. We adapt and adopt precautions in our life to reduce long-term health impacts, like we've done before with many other illnesses that plague humanity.

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[–] helmet91@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Basic cybersecurity skills, like

  • don't click on random links in random emails
  • identify phishing/scam emails
  • use a password manager & generate long enough passwords
  • know how long a safe password is
  • use unique passwords everywhere
  • use an ad blocker
  • don't click on sketchy links
  • identify sketchy links
  • don't share your personal data when it's not necessary
  • make offline & online backups
  • change the admin and wifi passwords of your home router from the factory default
  • have some sort of a firewall and antivirus software
  • etc...
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[–] nudnyekscentryk@szmer.info 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

All salespeople in every shop have negotiation brackets (well perhaps except grocery supermarkets) for most products and are willing to go down on the price if that may encourage you to buy. The negotiation wiggle space is normally included in the price and yeah, they do know you're uncomfortable haggling and will go out of their way to not discourage you from purchase.

Also, but this is something I only heard from a colleague, you can negotiate up to 40% off if you convince them to purchase the product using their employee discount (so bulk price) and split the difference off the record.

[–] ShittyRedditWasBetter@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I'm just imagining some jackass negotiating at Walmart now.

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[–] Nia@beehaw.org 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

One for people in the US:

You aren't taxed at the higher rate for all of your income when you get a raise that puts you in a higher tax bracket, only the part that is in the range of that bracket specifically. The rest of your income below the bracket is taxed the same as before.

I've seen a lot of people decline promotions and raises over this, and bosses are very happy to let you continue thinking that's how it works.

Not sure if that counts as not common knowledge, but a lot of people I know didn't know it before.

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[–] zemja@programming.dev 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Cement is highly alkaline. If wet cement comes in contact with your skin, it can cause third degree chemical burns. So don't write your name in wet cement like Bart Simpson.

[–] DogMuffins@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 year ago (7 children)

IDK if "third degree" chemical burns are a thing.

Cement will dissolve the fat from under your skin, and a third degree burn is when you cook the fat under your skin.

Also it's not going to burn you within a few minutes the way we normally think of a chemical burn.

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[–] NENathaniel@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago (8 children)

The cable is the weakest link of Earbuds for durability.

IEM's with replaceable cables are readily available and getting very cheap & good these days (e.g. Moondrop Chu 2, Truthear Hola, etc)

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[–] impiri@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If someone tells you no or you try and fail at something, life actually just continues on from that point, and you can try other things

[–] Spendrill@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

In my very early life if I tried things and failed my parents would then try to help by offering harsh criticism and then a very tedious and didactic lecture. Made me unwilling to try to do anything.

In later life I belatedly learned that being really good at anything usually involves being really bad at it for a long time. Also, there will come a point where you don't suck at something and you will mistakenly think you have become quite good at it. You can still take pleasure from not sucking but be careful of overestimating your abilities.

tl;dr - It's ok to be bad at things, you have to be bad at things before you become good.

[–] UdeRecife@lemmy.sdfeu.org 9 points 1 year ago

When you're about to face a high risk, high reward situation, you should willfully, willingly start to hyperventilate, as this helps your brain ...

NEVER take any stranger's advice on the internet as credible without checking it with a specialist. This is especially true when said advice relates to your health and/or safety.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Magnetic USB connectors are a thing and can save your cables/devices not just from wear and tear (unplugging/replugging constantly) but also from cables being tripped over or otherwise pulled. Highly recommended if you're using VR! Sadly there are no standards to these.

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[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Cars are way more expensive than you think, and getting rid of it will make you happier and way wealthier.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ztHZj6QNlkM

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[–] Colorcodedresistor@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You can't take money with you when you die.

[–] fubo@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To be fair, you can't take the memories either.

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[–] jbrains@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago

You are not forced to retire once, near the end of your life, for the rest of your life.

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Health related:

  • "Healthy food" is a grift meant to sell you shit. And by that I mean most "Healthy Foods" you find on the supermarket or are advertised as superfoods or are at the core of the latest fad diet are in fact just as trashy as any other ultraprocessed prepackaged food. Even if they are truly healthy foodstuffs, they are often something that isn't a staple of people's everyday diets (usually shit that is part of the diet in a foreign culture, but not on the West) that you get massively overcharged for because "Muh superfood".
  • The real way to eat healthy is to buy fresh ingredients, cook your own meals, and inform yourself on what your body actually needs so you can be smart about what you cook... But that requires time and work investment, which most people cannot afford to do, which is why obesity is more common in poor folk than on rich folk. Have I mentioned that knowing certain stuff will make you, if not politically radicalised, very angry regardless?

Computer related:

  • In windows 10 and 11 if you press Win+V instead of Ctrl+V you'll get the option to activate clipboard history. After that, you can use Win+V to get a little menu that lists things that were in your clipboard and which you replaced by copying/cutting something else. You can then choose what to paste. Linux has plenty of programs that add this functionality and was in fact there first. No idea about MacOS.
  • Learning a bit of your operating system's command line interface will save you a lot of time and effort in the long run -- And you don't need to become one of those turbo-weirdos that uses nothing BUT the CLI -- But the reason the good ol' console-host/terminal-emulator has stuck around after all these years is that there is a lot of shit that is just faster and more practical to do by typing a few words vs. going through 10 different menus and tabs.
  • Save yourself some money: If you're not gonna be doing hardcore state-of-the-art gaming or heavy video editing or some other intense task, a middle-of-the-road computer from ten years ago with some light upgrades will carry you just fine. Get a used PC, get a decent quality SATA SSD and some extra sticks of RAM (8 minimum, ideally 16 or more) and you'll be all set for everyday internet browsing and office tasks and shit. Heck, slap in a GPU later and you can get away with playing a lot of games, if not with DigitalFoundry tier performance.
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[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That GoodWill and Autism Speaks are not valid as charities/nonprofits.

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[–] BananaPeal@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

In Windows 10 & 11, window+shift+S then draw a box to grab a quick, pre-cropped screenshot. It goes to your clipboard for easy paste and you get a notification you can click to view and save to file.

Bonus: use window+L at work to lock your desktop, preventing shenanigans.

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[–] scorpious@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

You do not have to embody or enact your thoughts and feelings.

We have no real moment-to-moment control over what comes down that highway…it just comes, an endless firehose of bs, at times, and it is entirely possible to notice and observe this activity, instead of being swept along and/or making it all mean things.

[–] sirico@feddit.uk 5 points 1 year ago (4 children)

If you're unsure which side of a path to be on especially with shared paths default to the national driving side. Bonus if you hear a bike bell don't jump to a side or call your dog into their path just keep doing what your doing

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[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Never heard of life traps. I googled it and it seems like marketing speak for psychological issues to deal with in therapy. Is that it means to you or something else?

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