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Took a little break from the internet and touched some grass and it was great. Wander back in here after my hiatus and what do I find? Just a thread with a bunch of fatphobia.

Cute.

For a community that is incredibly careful about protecting its users from the -phobias and the -isms, there sure is a hell of a lot of unchecked fatphobia here basically any time fatness gets brought up.

It’s something I’ve noticed on the left in general as well. The leftist org I’m in has almost no fat people in it and something tells me that’s not because there aren’t any fat leftists out there.

Fatphobia is rooted in anti-Blackness and ableism.

I’d highly recommend the “Maintenance Phase” podcast with Michael Hobbes and Aubrey Gordon, as well as Aubrey Gordon’s books “What We Don’t Talk About When We Talk About Fat” and “You Just Need To Lose Weight.”

TL;DR: There’s mounting evidence that anti-fat bias in medicine is more to blame for poor medical outcomes in fat people rather than just the fat itself.

Diet and exercise don’t result in long-term weight loss for something like 95% of people. As a leftist, are you really gonna sit here and blame this on individual choices rather than systemic issues? Are you really gonna try to convince us that 95% of people are just lacking willpower?

Please note that this thread is not an invitation to convince me I’m wrong or share your own personal anecdotal story of successful long-term weight loss with the implication that others can do it because you did it. This post is a request that any thin person (or thin-adjacent person) reading this who wants to argue about how being fat is bad for your health do some research and some self-crit. This post is a request that this community rethink the way it engages with discussions about fatness, diet, fatphobia, and anti-fat bias.

Anti-fat bias literally kills people.

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[–] Cowbee@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago (4 children)

For the sake of myself trying to be better, is (CW: potentially bad comment) this comment okay, or not? I edited it recently to be more clear, but this is something I want to make sure isn't harming comrades. I will absolutely edit the comment if necessary, but this is something I want to be sure is okay.

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[–] SpiderFarmer@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

Huh, guess I missed a lot of the fatphobic stuff.

[–] mayo_cider@hexbear.net 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I'm a pretty thin person (used to be underweight) partially because of my mom's constant dieting and comments towards other people's weight (for me it used to be directed towards gaining weight until I told her I stopped weighting myself because it was worsening my anxiety)

The only situation where you should bring up other people's weight is if they suddenly start rapidly loosing or gaining it

People on both sides of the "healthy" spectrum are well aware that they are not the average, your comments won't change or help anything

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