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[–] undercrust@lemmy.ca 67 points 5 months ago

So a child groomer, huh. Projection yet again.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 22 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Eh, could have been worse... they could have met at a family reunion. ;)

[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.world 50 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Honestly, two adults who are related getting married is less gross to me than a middle-aged person marrying a child.

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

Marrying an adult he had too much access to as a child.

[–] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 18 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Ick.

She’s 33 now. Grooming permanently damage her or could she just be legit in love with him today? Or even if so were other opportunities potential stolen from her, or what’s y’alls take?

[–] skulblaka@startrek.website 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Possibly all of the above. If I were in her shoes I'd have probably taken the deal as well. Guaranteed all-expenses scholarship in your chosen field, followed afterward by a train of effectively infinite money coupled with political power? And in return she just has to give this old man the occasional shag? It's honestly not a bad deal.

Make no mistake though, she is a victim here. Even if she may have profited off it the fact remains that she was groomed by a middle aged man while in high school and was extremely likely coerced into this relationship, either by offers or by threats or most likely some combination of both. A Faustian deal was struck here, where the opportunity for a regular loving family was given up in exchange for power, but it's not clear to me how much choice was given to her in this deal.

[–] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 months ago

Thank you for the excellent analysis. Sounds very right.

[–] jeffw@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

It's quite possible to have feelings towards an abuser/groomer. But yeah, she probably could have had better chances if she weren't groomed.

[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 7 points 5 months ago

Yup. That's a deeply unsettling age difference.

[–] Dkarma@lemmy.world 7 points 5 months ago

Haha holy shit that's this guy?

Someone tell the kid his dad's a groomer

[–] dudinax@programming.dev 3 points 5 months ago

bride-elect? what does that mean?

[–] noisefree@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago

This guy is still around in Congress?! I had no idea it was the same dude when the recent articles about the photobombing kid came out. Ew.

[–] celeste@kbin.earth 3 points 5 months ago

That one person was probably just trolling, but nowadays teens are much less likely to be sexually active than in previous decades.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/people-have-been-having-less-sex-whether-theyre-teenagers-or-40-somethings/