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I doubt it'll go anywhere, and I'm not sure it should.
Do we want tougher moderation on social media? Does social media need to be policed?
Most social networks have report tools. They also have blocks.
If someone is rude to you online — honestly, happens all the time. People have a bad day or whatever. I've said something, not even meaning to, that set someone off and they've stalked me across communities. Even in the last few weeks I've been on Lemmy. But, if someone is consistently negative toward you, you can block them. You can also ignore them. You could even call them out on their bullshit and then ignore them, and that's what I did. Maybe it wasn't the best course of action, this guy's probably got a girlfriend or maybe a kid he's beating up when he doesn't get his way with people online. But I have no control over that. What I do have control over is how I feel when people talk to me any kind of way. The way they act could be because of any number of things. The way they were raised, the way they've been treated, maybe they burned their hand cooking and they're just mad at the world right this second and they say something rude. I got no control over any of that whatsoever. What I do have control over is how their words make me feel and how I react.
Maybe that's something kids can't just pick up, but maybe it's something they should learn. Bullies aren't going to go away. People aren't going to stop having bad days. But if they're taking it out on people through social media, they aren't a physical threat to you — they can be safely ignored.
Adding a bunch of extra moderators and safety features and all that won't change things. It won't make people behave better. We can't make them do that. We can try. Maybe AI can be used to detect hostile posts and tell people they can't use the network for an hour, tell them to go touch grass or something... but they'll just hop on over to another network and do the same shit there. And there will be so many false positives. So I think we should just ignore hostility. On something like this, you can downvote it. If it's the same person, the network may even show you that you've downvoted this person multiple times, and you can then decide to block them. But maybe they're helping someone in another community. Block them and move on. It's faster and it works better.
If you're advertising your platform as kid-friendly; you need to ensure proper steps are done to protect them. Roblox, a billion dollar game platform has failed on this. Let's say you're a responsible parent. Your kid asks you GTA 5, you check its age rating and say no.
Your kid asks to play Roblox. You look up, see the game advertises itself as safe for children and find about parental controls for concerned parents, create your son an account using it, setting proper age restrictions. Later on, you find out your kid got groomed by someone he met on Roblox, even though you set proper precautions. Is it your fault for not helicopter parenting your son that he got such a traumatic experience, has Roblox done nothing wrong here? I don't think so.