this post was submitted on 14 Sep 2025
58 points (93.9% liked)

Asklemmy

50565 readers
533 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy πŸ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_A@discuss.tchncs.de~

founded 6 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 week ago (5 children)

If there really are only harmful options, for sure choose the least harm. But you have to make sure that you're not ignoring an option which involves no harm.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The problem really is when people assume there's only two choices. If you dont like the choices, be creative and come up with something else.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I mean for most things there are almost unlimited choices. One can go mad in response to something. So just want to add to not assume there are only two effective choices and be creative to look for another possible effective choice. I mean if you find a new choice to avoid a choice that you can see will have the same result of the first choice then making the new choice is effectively the same as the other choice.

[–] Rekorse@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'd caveat that if you didnt know the new choice would result in the same thing as the first choice, you still gained new knowledge by trying it out. We also can't know all the answers all the time.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 1 week ago

totally agree.

[–] sopularity_fax@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If you are in this position, it helps to remember a great suits quote:

You need a bigger gun

β€”Harvey Specter

load more comments (2 replies)