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Servers/wait staff, do you find it rude if patrons stack their plates while waiting for the check? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 2 weeks ago by capybeby@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I’ve always ment for it to be helpful, but I can see it being read rude or passive aggressive. Thank you in advance for your time and your thoughts!

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[–] rbos@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

There is often very limited table space and stacking the dishes can be more about making room than server convenience.

That said, obviously don't be dumb about it. Stack dishes properly and maybe stick the utensils in a cup so they aren't at risk of falling during transport.